This week’s episode is solo, with Mark reflecting on Two Wrongs That Make a Writer Spite. He takes a look at two negative things that writers often focus on which can be demotivating and make them hateful or spiteful – things that detract from what writers should be focusing on to move onward and upward in their writer journey.
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MAIN TOPIC: Two Wrongs
Writers have a difficult time. Just the creation aspect of writing is a tremendous feat in and of itself. There’s so much to learn, so many mistakes to make along the way.
And yet, writers tend to put more on their own shoulders that cause more pain, more angst, more anxiety, more self-doubt.
Those two things are COMPARISON and REJECTION. Mark talks about each of them and shares his own reflections on ways that he attempts to overcome them and turn these two negatives into a positive.
He looks at some personal fitness running goals recently achieved and the possibility of what might happen if he were to compare his personal achievements and goals with those master runners. He parallels that to the goals and comparisonitis that writers struggle with.
Then he uses an analogy that author Kerrie Flanagan writes about in a recent book she wrote for writers, comparing the rejection a writer feels from either submissions not accepted or self-published books that haven’t been selling. He looks at how a waiter might react to restaurant patrons NOT choosing the “daily special” and asks writers to consider the reasons for not choosing that special, which likely have NOTHING to do with the quality or value of that special, and thus shouldn’t be taken personally.
He reminds writers that they already have enough self-doubt and anxiety and needn’t put the additional COMPARISON and REJECTION issues on their own shoulders.
Links of Interest:
- Joanna Penn’s Interview (Episode 2)
- A great post and video about comparisonitis with helpful tips on overcoming by Joanna Penn
- Kerrie Flanagan’s Interview (Episode 31)
- Findaway Voices – Authors Direct
- Mark’s US Authors Direct Page for Stark Publishing
- Mark’s home-page for EVASION (with links to ebook and audiobook purchasing)